Friday, November 07, 2008

My latest colummn ...

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through the Wheat City Journal, a weekly newspaper in Brandon.

Thursday, November 06, 2008

Change we can believe in ...

a guy named Obama once said:

“Throughout my life, I have always looked to Mahatma Gandhi as an inspiration, because he embodies the kind of transformational change that can be made when ordinary people come together to do extraordinary things,”

It's funny, over and over I get stopped by people and told - "I read your blog and I think it's awesome ..." in one case a non-United Church person said - "Keep up the good work, I like what you have to say and I hope you won't let 'them' win ..."

A few weeks ago I had occassion to be in Minnedosa for an extended period of time and over and over and over I was given warm hugs, told how much I was missed and encouraged to "keep fighting" one person said it bluntly - "Don't let those BASTARDS win!!" and he then went on to NAME who the BASTARDS were - his list was a remarkably accurate inventory of those who manipulated the process to remove me from Ministry.

I've long struggled with the negative comments that frequently get left on my blog, and wrestled with whether I should post anonymous comments or not.

I will often post anonymous comments so that I can't be criticized for censoring comments. My one rule of thumb is "no abuse", otherwise I will post even negative comments ... this morning is no exception.

However, what I realized today as I reflected more upon the negative comment posted on today's earlier posting, is that the speaker is writing from FEAR and outright IGNORANCE ... they speak from fear, dubbing criticism of inaction, political machination and outright manipulation as "unkind" and ask - "what set you off?"

Nothing set me off. I have been reflecting on these things for a very long time ... as I've owned my personal responsibility in a toxic situation and been called to account for MY actions, I've watched as others have been set free to continue down the path they have trod for too long - a path that has consumed more than just me.

Criticism has a place.

Harsh and blunt words are needed in the face of injustice.

People like Gandhi, King, Tutu, and countless others INCLUDING Barack Obama have used respectful criticism to name injustice as they find it.

Jim Wallis once said - "hope is believing in spite of the evidence and watching the evidence change," as he spoke of the fight against Apartheid. I wonder if Mandela, Tutu and others who fought against systemic injustice would have achieved the end they did, had they bitten their tongue and NOT spoken unkind words about the injustice that was perpetuated by a system that was simply and utterly SINFUL and MISGUIDED.

Go back anonymous reader and review the words of ANY of the people I've cited this morning - Gandhi, King, Tutu, Mandela, Wallis and even Barack - hear the incredibly sharp criticism they've lobbed at their opponents ... what you dub unkind is simply stating a TRUTH. Minnedosa United Church would be worshipping in a NEW Sanctuary Building Today had they stayed to the Truth rather than wallowing in political machinations, gossip, slander and outright cowardice.

Minnedosa is a community that is deeply grieving, and instead of rendering care the powers that be are simply edifying their positions of prestige and privilege and letting those who are hurting continue to HURT ... I ask ALL of you - IS THAT A FAITHFUL RESPONSE ???

The legacy of the prophetic visionaries is to name injustice and to name injustice is to ruffle feathers of those who are NOT about justice for ALL ... the funny thing is - in Minnedosa the voices that CONTINUE to critique me are those who wouldn't know justice if they tripped over it. AND for that reason alone, I chose to listen to the voices of those who pat me on the back and with tears in their eyes say - "thank you for your words. Keep Blogging. Keep speaking the truth ... DON'T LET THE BASTARDS WIN !!!!"

To my critics - DEAL WITH IT !! You're either with us (the pursuit of justice) or you're against us - it's YOUR CHOICE.

What are we afraid of ???

"Yes we can !"

"Change we can believe in!"

It's a historic time ... one of those moments when we will look back and say - "I remember when ..."

And yet, over and over the whole experience of watching Barack Obama elected president comes down to three main issues ... the first is - "the FIRST African American elected president" ... the second is simple bold faced fear - fear of the unknown - fear of the "socialist" Obama - just simple fear born of ignorance ... and the third is "Obama was simply the best man for the job" with no reference to his ethnicity, skin colour or any other factor other than an intelligent, well spoken candidate ...

Today having listened to, and re-read his election night speech, I fall in the category of seeing Obama not as the "black" candidate, but as the BEST candidate who just happened to be black.

Looking at the polls though, and the break down of who voted what way, I am struck over and over by the simple undeniable fact that the election of Barack Obama as the 44th President of the United States of America is a clear signal that our world is changing and the young people are beginning to claim their place in the world. The stats I've read tell us that overwhelmingly the Black vote went to Obama, not that that should surprise us. But also the majority of young voters, that is people under 45, voted for him too.

This sends us one clear message:

The world is changing, and we can not, nor should we try to deny nor ignore that change.

Yet, in our world today too many organizations, agencies and institutions are dedicated not to the dynamism that allows them to ride this tide of change, but rather they are dedicated to the STATUS QUO and preserving the way things are into infinity ...

So terrified of what might be, they chose instead to cling tightly to what is, and in the process become not just out of step with the reality around them, they lose touch with the very world in which they live ...

If you doubt this for even a moment, step over to the Blog "The Laughing Pastor" and read the comments Blake has posted that were uttered in response to Obama's win ... he has chronicled the utterances of well intentioned and no doubt faithful people who have spoken words dripping with hate and ignorance ... words thankfully enlightened and faith-filled leadership like Blake can lovingly rebuff ... but words that betray a deep fear lying in the hearts of people who fill and ever shrinking church population census.

Closer to home in Western Manitoba, I have watched over the last 8 and half years as a wave of fear has washed over the rural United Church congregations and turned them into closed communities that are interested ONLY in surviving as social club cliques that purport to be warm and welcoming places that open their doors to the strangers and the outsiders, when in truth nothing could be further from the truth. They have become small minded institutions teetering on the brink of oblivion, lead by leadership that is terrified of taking a stand lest someone might get offended and leave.

It is easier to maintain the status quo and live wallowing in their fear than it is to courageously and boldly stand up in the midst of change and unfurl our collective sails and let the winds carry us where we might go ...

What is needed is a courageous act of leadership that says firstly - "ENOUGH!!! We will not be lackeys for the status quo. But we will bravely, courageously and boldly embrace the winds of change and discern the call of the Spirit in this time of upheaval and uncertainty." Rather than blithely appeasing the conservative, close minded agenda that wants nothing more than to preserve what has been, the leadership in community and in the Church MUST take a stand for CHANGE.

As a wise man once said - we have nothing to fear but fear its self.

Unfortunately in the Church today, to say nothing of rural communities across this land and this continent - and rural can include large metropolitan centres if the thinking and actions remain stuck in the gumbo mud of the past - in these rural centres the leadership too often remains firmly entrenched with 1950's values in a world that has left that mindset behind decades ago ... Rather than pandering to the fear and apprehension The Church - The United Church - must reclaim its mantle of leadership and stand up for Change.

Mere words are no longer enough. The veneer of inclusivity, liberalism and a warm welcome for all has been worn away in the rural centres of North America, and the shallow, closed and unwelcoming reality of these centres has been revealed. Unfortunately too many of my esteemed colleagues - and I use the term "esteemed" quite facetiously - are MORE concerned about their next pay cheque, their economic security and NOT offending ANYONE, then they are about being faithful.

The analogy of the Titanic comes strongly to mind today ... the band is boldly playing to comfort the passengers, the leadership is calmly wandering amongst us offering quiet meaningless platitudes of comfort and humour, and people are playing with chunks of the very ice berg that rendered a mortal wound in the vessel ... meanwhile below decks the ship is shuddering and sinking, and NO ONE wants to deal with THAT reality.

No one wants to acknowledge the steerage passengers who are perishing by the score ...

No one wants to acknowledge that the ship is in peril ...

No one wants to deal with reality ...

Instead the band plays on and we wrap ourselves in the comfort of the familiar ... the band ... the dining salon ... the opulence ... the comfort of the KNOWN ...

The cold water is washing around our ankles, but we will not acknowledge that the ship we are on is sinking ... so strong and great is our fear ... we will continue to deny the reality of what is around us ... and the most unforgivable thing in ALL of THIS is the simple fact that well intentioned, enlightened and well educated leadership such as the Clergy in the United Church of Canada do absolutely nothing to address that fear, but instead continue to pander to it ...

As a specific example, I will cite the community of Minnedosa as a place enveloped in great fear and a strong denial of reality ... There is a reason that the community is dying and a reason why the congregations that are Minnedosa United Church remains homeless after TWO AND HALF YEARS ... they could have their new building up in six months. Yes I did say congregations in the plural when referring to Minnedosa United Church - there are clearly no less than TWO congregations operating in that community - one that truly is warm and welcoming and inclusive and that embodies ALL of the things that the United Church is supposed to be about, and the other smaller, cluster is about fear, power, politics and prestige. The interest amongst this congregation is NOT welcoming in the stranger and being open to change - their interest in is preserving the status quo and preserving the perverted status and prestige they glean from associating with the social club they seek to be ... The greater church continues to deny the split in Minnedosa, and continues to allow the toxic co-dependency of a small faction of fear-filled individuals operating out of ignorance to dominate and bully the rest of the congregation ...

What is needed is in Minnedosa and in most rural communities today is a leadership with COURAGE, HONESTY, OPENNESS, AND MOST OF ALL, a leadership that has the where-with-all to live in reality and name the fact that fear will NOT prevail. It is not happening - at least not in the small rural towns ... and I weep for that ...

One day not only will the truth prevail ... but so will the values of justice, inclusion and FAITH ... my one prayer is that it happens before it is too late for places like Minnedosa ... there are good people in that town who are being abandoned by the Church they have grown up loving and being involved in, and the Leadership doesn't care ... they are more concerned with appearances, prestige and POWER, then they are FAITH ... and until that changes the Church will not only continue to die ... the communities around it will continue to die too ...

You can blame any number of factors for the downward spiral of rural communities, but at the end of the day the ONLY one to blame is the person who did NOTHING when action was required ... and right now, in the United Church of Canada fear has meant that just about EVERYONE is to blame, because few are willing to take a chance ...

Thank GOD that we NOW have the election of President Barack Obama to show us what CAN and WILL happen when people do something rather than complacently accept the way things are ... like the man said - "YES, we can !!"

Failing to embrace change means only one thing: DEATH ... change is what life is ... and for some reason the United Church of Canada in Western Manitoba, and indeed the very communities it serves have collectively forgotten that simple truth and until it is remembered it is destined to die ... and it promises to be a long and painful journey ...

And at the end of the day, I will NOT bite my tongue and refrain from saying - "I told you so!" I will take no joy in saying it - but IT WILL BE SAID, unless the leadership of Assiniboine Presbytery starts to act with courage and boldness and most of all FAITH ...

What are YOU afraid of ???

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

A Fortune for the Time ...

Today after lunch I was given a fortune cookie ... the slip of paper inside read simply:

"A bold and dashing adventure is in your future."

On so many levels it is a very apt fortune for TODAY!!!

Great days ...

There are certain days that stand out in my life, some are good, and some are not so good - but all of them are indelibly etched in my heart and mind as momentous moments, among them:

The afternoon of my ordination to a ministry of Word, Sacrament and Pastoral Care ...

The day Nelson Mandela became President of a New South Africa ...

The births of my three children ...

The day the Challenger exploded on take off ...

The day my grandmother died ...

The day the Berlin Wall fell ...

The day the twin towers in New York fell ...

The days I was fired from ministry in the United Church of Canada ...

The day John Lennon died ...

The day I started my current job ...

The day Nelson Mandela stepped out of a jail cell into a long awaited freedom ...

The day M & I married ...

AND now today a new day joins that calendar ... The day Barack Obama was elected President of the United States of America !!!

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Tuesday, November 04, 2008

The Grand Old Men speak:

In response to Barack Obama's victory, Ted Kennedy said:

"Today, Americans spoke loud and clear and demanded change by electing Barack Obama as our next President. They understood his vision of a fairer and more just America and embraced it. They heard his call for a new generation of Americans to participate in government and were inspired. They believed that change is possible and voted to be part of America’s future."

"Barack Obama is my friend and tonight, I’m very proud to call him my President. I look forward to working with him and Joe Biden on the many challenges facing our country here at home and around the world."

and former Democrat Presidential candidate John Kerry said:

"Tonight we elected a President who has inspired a majority of Americans with his vision and policies, a man who is principally a leader for these times who happens to also be African American; and because of America’s stunning ability to move on and transform, to write a new chapter of our history, Barack Obama will be President during the 50th anniversary of the Civil Rights movement and the 150th anniversary of the Civil War."

"Tonight there are tears of joy and disbelief in small rural communities and inner cities, where for too long, some weren’t sure anything was really possible for them."

"Tonight new dreams are born and old truths are affirmed. Tonight we enter a new America, the best America, the America of our highest hopes."

YES!!!!!!

Just after 10 pm Central Time, CNN and other news agencies across the US have declared Obama the next President of the United States of America !!!
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Only one word comes to my lips right now: YES!!!!!!

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45 years ago Martin Luther King shared a dream ... today that dream came a little bit closer to reality !!!

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As King said so eloquently - "let Freedom ring !!!"

Hmmm ... it's a generational thing ...

It's interesting to watch the online coverage of the Obama/McCain election ... while the popular vote is split almost 50/50, the intriguing stat that has so far been over looked by the talking heads and the other commentary is the exit poll information being supplied on cnn.com.

When broken down by age it is almost consistent - the 19 to 44 age groups have voted strongly for Obama, while the older than 65 age group have voted consistently for McCain.

The divide in our southern neighbour is deeper than simply a Democrat-Republican divide ... it is a generational thing. The older generation opt for the known entity of a older white man, while women and the young (under 44) have opted for the chance of change with a young, left (by US standards anyway) leaning Black Senator!!

Change is in the wind ... hopefully the wind will strongly blow for awhile !!!!

Yes WE Can !!!

The polls are closing ...
The talking heads are pontificating ...
The votes are being counted ...
and the waiting begins.
The race for the 44th President of the United States of America
is drawing to a close ...
now we can only wait,
and pray for change.

Monday, November 03, 2008

An adorable picture ...

An adorable kid ... and lovely mother ... a great picture ...

Let's hope the little guy, now grown, is able to claim the title of the first African-American President of the United States of America!!!

In a few short hours the process will begin ... my one hope is that the Republicans don't steal yet another election, but this time the will of the people prevails, and we begin the long, slow and laborious crawl back from the brink the conservatives around the world have pushed us ...

Hopefully tomorrow is the beginning of a bold new era ... one that began four decades ago when a young mom held her beautiful baby boy and they BOTH smiled with unbridled joy !!!

May their smiles be shared by many more this time tomorrow !!!!!

YES!!!! (today's Horoscope)

From today's newspaper:

You're done with jumping through hoops to please the powers that be. No more scrambling or begging either. Everything you need will come to you because you are true to yourself.

And from Facebook's Chinese Horoscope offering:

It's a good day to be thinking about or looking forward to your next vacation, There could be unexpected bargains or opportunities for you to travel as you have been unable to do in the past. You may find yourself taking a short trip to an art gallery or store today.
I kinda like the newspaper horoscope ... after the last couple of years it brings a hearty - "YES!!" to my lips and soul on so many levels !!!!!

Saturday, November 01, 2008

Looking back on the day ...

Flute is curled up fast asleep in her kennel ... she came home tonight a very tired little puppy ... Ms H is snuggled in her bad awash in dreams ... and I will shortly claim my bed and join the nocturnal slumber ...

But before I go ... I want to look back on my day and reflect aloud (so too speak) on how wonderful it was ...

The day started lazily with a 7 am wake up ... laundry, coffee, a walk of the dog and a perusal of yesterday's newspaper before waking Ms H up for the day ...

By the time I got to work I had been given home-made birthday cards by both girls, and got a phone message on my cell from another friend who just called to say - "Happy Birthday!"

I arrived in my office to find it filled with 20 black and orange helium balloons, a couple of cards from my co-workers and friends, and a special delivery from a friend that consisted of life savers and a beautifully iced cupcake with a MUMMY FACE of icing on top!!

Costumes and silliness were the rule of the day with visits from other City Hall departments who had joined in the spirit of the day ... then at lunch most of from our office walked over to a local eatery for a wonderful lunch that was capped off with an absolutely amazing cake created by one of my co-workers !!

The rest of the afternoon had a variety of little people trick or treat'ers stopping in the office ... Flute was visiting, so it added to the fun ... my Facebook wall filled with B-day greetings and near the end of the afternoon my cell rang and a cherished friend called to wish me a happy halloween, and "oh now what was that other thing I was supposed to say ..." I could hear the broad and beautiful smile in her voice !!! And a cheerful Birthday greeting was offered too !!

The evening was spent with Noahkila and Beetle ... Ms H was off with her friends ... At M's house we had a dinner of b-b-q'ed hamburgers followed by a round of trick or treating with Beetle and Flute (Flute was adorable in her costume!!), then when Beetle decided she had more than enough candy and Halloween crap, we headed back to M's for cake ... a beautifully decorated Wizard of Oz vista complete with special and unique touches left by Beetle's creativity and care ...

The day ended with a return home with a very very very exhausted puppy, a tired girl and a birthday boy, who has had an absolutely fabulous day !!! It was what I wanted and it was simply beautiful !!

As I hung up the phone from talking with a dear friend, I laughed out loud at the realization of how much my life has changed since last year when I turned 40 ... and how much better it has truly gotten !!!

ALL in all it was an amazing birthday, and a splendid start to my 41st Year.

Thanks to one and all.

Friday, October 31, 2008

This year's decorations ...


We decorated M's yard this year.

Scenes from Today ...

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Noahkila and a less than enthusiastic
costumed FLUTE.
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Noahkila and I with the cake Beetle helped create.
It was my second cake for the day ...
my co-workers shared one with me at a fabulous lunch out
that we took together.

A Close up of the cake:
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Flute looking like she's being eaten by a giant green lizard:






Today's Horoscopes ...

From the Facebook Chinese horoscope:

"You can be a powerful speaker right now, especially when you are pounding the table on political matters, or waxing eloquent about the latest adventures of your favorite movie stars. Try to put some of that energy to use in career-building projects."

From the Facebook Astrology Scorpio Horoscope:

"Your workplace is about to undergo a dramatic series of changes, likely due to some investment in communications or networking devices. If you work at home, you could be buying a new computer or signing up for a new Internet account. Regardless, you'll have much better connections when the day is done."

From today's newspaper horoscope:

"You're too wise to complain. Complaining is a waste of time, energy, and breath. This is your lot and you're going to make the best of it. Actually you're quite brilliant when you get down to it."

And from today's birthday in the newspaper:

"Your bright outlook makes it easier for you to see your way this year. Past trials are over and you look forward to handling whatever life brings. Before the new year begins there's a creative, though risky business endeavour to consider. Take the only path that's both fun and lucrative."

Today ...

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I turned 41
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I am now officially older than my dad
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It might only be a number,
but to me it IS significant.
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Welcome to the Family ...

Today in the midst of a whirling flurry of puppy activity that would have left the Tasmanian Devil from Bugs Bunny cartoons breathless in exhaustion, there was a quiet knock at our door and one of the folks from Funds for Furry Friends dropped off the adoption package that made Flute an official member of our family ...

The cries of "FLUTE!!!" "FLUTE!!!!" "FLUTE!!!!!!" from Ms H that marked the morning cast the decision in momentary doubt, but with a sigh, a stretch and an unraised paw all was forgiven ...

Welcome HOME little Dog !!!

Sheesh ...

I haven't posted the comments about the "joke" I played on Noahkila on Sunday ... one calls me a Jerk ... one questions my maturity ... one questions my faith ... and ALL question the appropriateness of the "joke" played on the "boy" ...

Fair enough ... I can take criticism, and I will publically offer an apology to Noahkila, and to those who were offended by the posting ...

HOWEVER, for the record - Noahkila is a 14 year old Boy who can NOW look his 5' 11" father IN THE EYE, and is the SAME physical size as me, and is STILL GROWING ... I would NOT have played the joke on him if I didn't think he would appreciate it, and if there was any risk of harm to him ... it was for the shock factor ... and clearly some question the appropriateness of it ... and I'll accept that.

And I will again apologize to Noahkila for it ... and I hear the comment from one reader who suggests that I should now watch my back, something I do - payback's a bitch !!

Happy Halloween !!!!!

This is one of my favourite Halloween Songs, and thanks to Youtube, I found a version with Cary Grant doing the Mash ... can't go wrong ...

Born On October 31st ...

John Keats - 1795
Dale Evans - 1912
Dan Rather - October 31st
David Ogden Stiers - 1942
Jane Pauley - 1950
Peter Jackson - 1961
Rob Schneider - 1963

and of course:

John Candy - 1950

Now as a present to MYSELF, here is a John Candy sketch from Sesame Street
"I'm seeing and hearing, but BOY I'm NOT believing ...":